Mr Keller tells us that it is the ones who God has gotten through a dark valley or two, that can then comfort others who are going through their own. (also see 2Co 1:4) We often pray to be a blessing to others, but then wonder why it seems like we are being thrust into a dark valley of life?! Well, if we really want to help others, we have to be able to relate. We have to be able to be, not only sympathetic, but empathetic. To sympathize is to feel sorry that someone is going through hard times. But to empathize is to know exactly how they feel and be able to help them go through it. Jesus was both…and God allows us to experience difficulties so we, too, may learn to be both. People can tell if we are being sincere, if we really get their pain, and it is only when we do that they might be willing to listen to how to get through it. Valleys are not meant to kill us…remember they are only shadows of death, not the real thing. But they are meant to grow us. To mature us to such a degree that we will be able to be a blessing to others.
The author’s last point is that, the valleys are where the most nutritious grazing ground is found. He also tells us about all sorts of dangers that can befall the shepherd and his flock as they pass through, but despite them all, it is still the best way to higher ground, to “…the high country of holy, calm, healthy living with God.” (p108) He says, “I know of nothing which so stimulates my faith in my heavenly Father as to look back and reflect on His faithfulness to me in every crisis in every circumstance of life…. In this knowledge fear fades and tranquility of heart and mind takes its place.” (p107) He ends this chapter with a great question. You see, it is never a matter of IF we will go through any valleys. The truth is God loves us too much not to lead us through some. As Mr Keller asks, “The question is how do I react to them?” (p 108) We can look inward and react poorly. Or we can look upward, to our Good Shepherd, and respond bravely. Simply because He will get us through since He is always with us.
2023’s Got A Minute? Book Club
January: The First & Best Book Ever: The Bible
February: Love Is In the Air: “The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts” by Gary Chapman
March: Spring Growth: “Secrets of the Vine” by Bruce Wilkinson
April: Living the Resurrected Life: “The Wonderful Spirit Filled Life” by Dr Charles Stanley
May: My Spiritual Mom: “Making Good Habits Breaking Bad Habits” by Joyce Meyer
June: Spiritual Dad: “It’s Not About Me- Rescue from the Life We Thought Would Make Us Happy” by Max Lucado
July: Financial Freedom “Complete Guide to Money” by Dave Ramsey
August: Summer’s Soul Restorer “A Shepherd Looks At Psalm 23” by W Phillip Keller
<>< Peace, Diane